Newsletter Jan/Feb 2026

Thurs, March 5
3:00 - 3:45 PM
Olmstead Webinar

Tues, March 10
7-8 PM

Sip & Chat

Sat, March 12
9:00 AM - Noon

Fragile X Foundation Board Meeting

Sun, July 12
11 AM - 3 PM
Xtraordinary Fragile X
Bowl-a-Thon

 

 

March is Developmental Disabilities Awareness Month!

This March, NCFXF is proud to celebrate Developmental Disabilities Month with the launch of We’re Here: Then, Now, Always campaign. The national campaign recognizes a simple truth: people with developmental disabilities have always been part of our communities – and always will be.

Same community. Same goals. Same future.

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North Carolina Families Brave the Snow to Share Fragile X Stories in Washington, DC

North Carolina delegates share their story with Senator Ted Budd. Seated (L to R): Dr. Kate Gregory (Asheville), Senator Budd, Miles Tillman, self advocate. Standing (L to R): Brittney Tillman, Andrew Miller, Thomas Miller, Tom Miller, and Brendon Miller (Clayton)
North Carolina delegates share their story with Senator Ted Budd. Seated (L to R): Dr. Kate Gregory (Asheville), Senator Budd, Miles Tillman, self advocate. Standing (L to R): Brittney Tillman, Andrew Miller, Thomas Miller, Tom Miller, and Brendon Miller (Clayton)
2026 advocates on the steps of the US Capitol ready to visit their elected officials.
2026 advocates on the steps of the US Capitol ready to visit their elected officials.

This year’s National Fragile X Advocacy Day will be remembered for two things: bitter cold and record snowfall up and down the East Coast and the courage of families who showed up!

Despite weather that disrupted flights and kept some delegations at home, two North Carolina families made it to Washington, DC to represent our state. Over two packed days, they visited both U.S. Senators from North Carolina and two Members of the U.S. House, carrying with them the stories of loved ones living with Fragile X back home.

For many, it was stepping into something completely new.

“I was inspired! I’ve never done anything like this before,” shared Kate Gregory, a North Carolina parent. “I was amazed by the access we had to the leaders of our government … that common citizens with no clout or money or power can come all the way in and have their say about the details of their lives that matter to them. I was proud to stand with all of them and be part of our NC team.”

The Tillman-Miller family, a blended family of parents, siblings, and a self-advocate, brought a powerful mix of perspectives. They talked about school, work, daily supports, and the hard choices families face when services are unstable or underfunded.

Tom Miller, parent: “It felt amazing to be a voice and contribute to a Fragile X community. They give it their all every day, and we hope that the reps do their part.”

Thomas Miller, sibling: “Even if we don’t see change we made a difference.”
Miles Tillman, self-advocate: “I liked sharing my story with congressmen people.”

For the siblings, what started out as intimidating quickly became something they didn’t want to stop doing:

Brendon Miller, sibling: “The experience was at first very scary but when we met with the first senator it was hard not to talk.”
Andrew Miller, sibling: “I felt like our story was heard and we were making a difference.”

As a blended family, the day also held special meaning at home:

Brittney Tillman, parent: “It’s so comforting to be amongst Fragile X family while advocating for our family and friends. It feels so empowering to find your voice and strength to help make a change to better the lives of those in the FX community. Seeing my son advocate for himself and his brothers and bonus dad stand beside him means everything.”

Your story doesn’t have to be long or perfect. Just like the families who braved the snow in DC, your voice adds up. When members of Congress hear from multiple North Carolina families with similar messages, it helps them understand that Fragile X is not rare in the lives of the people they serve. Your voice matters. Let’s stand together to protect Medicaid and secure funding for Fragile X research. Call or e-mail today and make a difference!

Click here to view all the NCFXF photos from National Advocacy Day

Board Retreat Sets Direction For Next Three Years

On February 6 and 7, the board of the North Carolina Fragile X Foundation held a focused retreat to set direction for the next three years. The retreat brought board members and facilitators from CCR Consulting together for an evening dinner on Friday and a full working day on Saturday.

The goal was simple and ambitious:

  • Clarify where NCFXF is heading.
  • Choose a small set of priorities.
  • Leave with a plan that respects the limits of a volunteer board and the real lives of families.

Friday evening. Stories and shared purpose

Friday night was a night to get acquainted and share some stories over dinner. From L to R are: Allison Taylor, Hannah Youngdeer, Ave Lachiewicz, Juan Mollindeo, Steve Strom, Kate Gregory, Tara Larson Brittany Tillman, and Diane Upshaw.
Friday night was a night to get acquainted and share some stories over dinner. From L to R are: Allison Taylor, Hannah Youngdeer, Ave Lachiewicz, Juan Mollindeo, Steve Strom, Kate Gregory, Tara Larson Brittany Tillman, and Diane Upshaw.
The group spent Saturday planning and prioritizing with facilitators, Hannah Youngdeer and Tara Larson from CCR Consulting.
The group spent Saturday planning and prioritizing with facilitators, Hannah Youngdeer and Tara Larson from CCR Consulting.

Friday night started with dinner and conversation. Each board member shared a short story about how Fragile X touches their life and why they serve on the board.

Saturday. Vision, priorities, and a 90-day plan

On Saturday, the facilitator guided the board through a series of short working sessions.

  • The group looked back at the past few years. Board members named specific wins.
  • The growth of the Bowlathon and the Family and Friends Picnic
  • The importance of Sip and Chat sessions for parents and caregivers
  • A louder voice for Fragile X in state policy conversations

Board members also named lessons. They saw patterns. Big ideas, but limited time. A small number of people taking on most of the work. A need for more structure, not more pressure.

The group ended the day feeling successful and sharing our tagline, Fragile X: We’re Everywhere!
The group ended the day feeling successful and sharing our tagline, Fragile X: We’re Everywhere!

You will see more updates on this work in upcoming newsletters, at events, and on the website.

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Kerry McCarthy Adams

Fragile X Parent Joins Local Early Childhood Board

We’re proud to share that Kerry McCarthy Adams, a North Carolina Fragile X parent and long-time advocate, now serves on the Board of Directors for Wake County Smart Start, the local early childhood partnership that helps young children and families in Wake County get a strong start in life.

Kerry brings both professional expertise in early intervention and personal experience as a parent of a child with Fragile X. She has lived in Wake County for nearly two decades and has been a consistent voice for inclusion through her work with:

  • Local early intervention and interagency coordinating councils
  • Parent–teacher organizations and special education advisory groups
  • The North Carolina Fragile X Foundation, including co-leading webinars and serving as a host for our Sip & Chat support group.

Serving on an early childhood board means Kerry can:

  • Help shape community-level decisions about how resources for young children and families are used
  • Ensure that children with disabilities and developmental differences areincluded in planning from the beginning, not as an afterthought
  • Bring the Fragile X perspective into conversations about child development, early intervention, and family support

For the North Carolina Fragile X community, Kerry’s leadership is a reminder that parents’ voices belong at every table where decisions are made about children and families, local, state, and national.

We are grateful for her service and excited to see how her work on the board helps create a stronger, more inclusive early childhood system for all children, including those with Fragile X.

Kerry is pictured here with her son, Elliot.
Kerry is pictured here with her son, Elliot.
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Public Policy Update

(as of February 23, 2026)

Republished from the North Carolina Council on Developmental Disabilities

We have inserted sections that show you why these matter to the Fragile X Community.

On January 22, 2026, the House passed the remaining six appropriation bills, including Labor, Health and Human Services, and Education, Defense, Transportation and Housing and Urban Development, Financial Services and General Government, State and Foreign Operations, and Homeland Security. This package of six bills was sent to the Senate for their approval. On January 30, 2026, the Senate passed all but Homeland Security, which was removed to allow for additional negotiation in the wake of the shootings by ICE in Minneapolis.

Since the package changed, it was sent back to the House, which passed the package of five bills on February 3, 2026. Below are key parts of the new budget that affect people with disabilities.

North Carolina is the only state in the U.S. without an enacted budget for the 2025-2027 biennium. State operations continue under previous funding levels. It is not expected that the budget will be addressed until the General Assembly returns for the short session in April 2026.

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Join Us March 10 at 7 PM for Next Sip & Chat Zoom Call!

Zoom calls are now held on the 2nd Tuesday of every month from 7-8 PM. Join our new hosts Brittney Tillman and Tom Miller to catch up, get to know each other, share stories, ask questions and focus on building friendships. Everyone is welcome!

Please register in advance. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email about joining the meeting. Click here to register.

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Webinar: Olmstead and North Carolina’s Olmstead Plan

Join DMH/DD/SUS for an informative webinar on the landmark Olmstead decision and what it means for people with disabilities in North Carolina. This session will:

  • Provide a brief overview of the Olmstead ruling
  • Explain why the decision is important for disability rights
  • Describe current actions and initiatives in North Carolina related to Olmstead compliance
  • Share details about North Carolina’s Olmstead Plan and how the state is advancing community integration

Thursday, March 5, 2026
3:00 - 3:45 PM
Register for the webinar
Accessibility: Closed captioning and American Sign Language interpreters will be provided.

Why this matters to our Fragile X community
Olmstead affirms the right of people with disabilities to receive services in the most integrated setting appropriate. For individuals with Fragile X, that means real opportunities to live, work, and participate in their communities instead of being pushed toward institutional settings. North Carolina’s Olmstead Plan shapes how the state invests in housing, home and community-based services, and supports like the Innovations Waiver. When you understand Olmstead, you understand the legal foundation behind the services that help your family member with Fragile X stay in the community with needed supports.

Xtraordinary NC Fragile X Bowl-a-Thon Set for Sunday, July 12, 2026!

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In celebration of World Fragile X Day and the NC Fragile X community, the Foundation proudly announces this year’s Xtraordinary Bowl-a-Thon!

Sunday, July 12, 2026 from 3 to 5 PM
Rainbow Lanes Family Fun Center
850 NC-42, Clayton, NC

Join us as bowlers or spectators in July for an afternoon of fun, friendship, and fundraising –  last year we raised $6,000 to support families affected by Fragile X Syndrome across our state. Read more here.

Alex Macpherson is presented the bowling trophy by Steve Strom.
Alex Macpherson is presented the bowling trophy by Steve Strom.
Adam Strom receives the 50/50 raffle winnings from Diane Upshaw.
Adam Strom receives the 50/50 raffle winnings from Diane Upshaw.